Thursday, February 7, 2013

Guest Service: Where Do We Go from Here?


Planning the Direction of our Ministry
Valerie A Lowe, First Church Member
January 27, 2003

French poet Paul Valery wrote “The trouble with our times is that the future is not what it used to be.”  
This is true of many things – our lives, city, our church community, our families and our selves.  We may have envisioned one future, and circumstances and life situations may have altered our plan.  The truth is, we’re always at a crossroad… of looking at now and the future.  Of now and the past.  And perception of what we see in either direction – past or future … can and often does change.
Today we discuss planning the direction of our ministry – I thought you might have a few questions for me about why I am even talking about this topic today.  Why would I want to address this business topic from the pulpit?
Surely it’s not a lamp of spirituality.  But, in the context of our liberal faith, this is an address about how we can foster the requirements for a search of our truth.  By discussion of what we need and want for our ministry, we claim our spirituality and search for truth and meaning. This is a tenant of our faith.
Why am I in the pulpit today to discuss this?  Surely I am not a minister, at least I am no more a minister than you – and still, I am no less of a minister than you.  In late November or early December last year, Board members Claudia Barker and Alice Kemp approached me.  The Annual Budget Drive was nearly complete; the large pledges were made.  They realized that funds were not adequate for a full-time minister, and they knew that this would affect the congregation.  So they asked me if I would lead a series of discussion about professional ministry with members of the congregation to define what we want.  I drafted a plan to host these discussions and presented it to the Board in December.  They approved it and also suggested I offer a sermon or homily in late January about what I am doing.
Another question you may have is “What are Valerie's qualifications to lead talk about this or lead any discussion on the direction of ministry?”  A fair question.  For the past seven years, I have served as an organizational change managers for a large company of 70,000 employees.  I am certified in change management and I facilitate change through planning, communications, discussions and education.  This is what I do for a living, and I believe my skills will serve us well here, too.
So, what will I talk about today? I’ll address:
·       Why this process is challenging, providing some context on the nature of change and small church interests.
·       How we are conducting these discussions
·       Some benefits for you to participate in these discussions on ministry
·       And how I hope to engage you in these discussions
Why is this planning process challenging and important?
·       Just being in community places us in a consistent state of flux. What one person says may influence you or others, even enough to change our thoughts and behaviors.  We affect each other and we can change because of that
·       We are small church and attached to our past 
o   In a newsletter from the Lewis Center for Church Leadership, Lovett Weems addresses “Leadership and the Small Church,” stating that people in small congregations who may have experienced pastoral changes, and/or political and economic changes, view such changes negatively.  Citing Denham Grierson, Australian religious educator, Weems concludes that small churches live either in the past or the future.  I believe it is human nature to grasp what is familiar and hold it close.
·       Change is hard – we’re all challenged by this, some more than others.  The dynamics of change on a group may be even more challenging than to individuals Surely you’ve seen this in members of your family: some people may really find a change to routine extremely difficult, where another family member adapts.  Particularly as we age, we become less flexible and adaptable to change.
o   Anthony Pappas in his book Entering the World of the Small Church says “For small church people, history goes the wrong way… It goes toward the good that was or that was thought to be.” Pappas discusses how leaders in small churches often link a future vision to what it used to be.
·       Again I hear the poet Paul Valery whispering to me  “the future is not what it used to be.”
·       Unless we plan with intention, change will take its own path.  Tenable change – the kind that grabs hold and people adopt – is done with intention, not just by circumstance.  Companies like certainty and to control change.  I hold that small churches – if pushed to make changes – also like that to be predictable.
·       Social commentator Lewis Hyde defines how the individual might be able to encapsulate the thoughts of the collective group he or she lives in.  In anthropology, there is a interesting resurrection of an old word 'dividual' So we live in a nation that values individuality, we live in a nation of individuals.  But a dividual person is one who is imagined to contain within himself or herself the community he or she lives in.”
·       If we look at the transitions we’ve been through, and collectively discuss a direction forward in our ministry – can we collectively plan a future that benefits us collectively?  Not just a future that benefits me or you individually, but one that benefits US.
·       To plan our future, we need to communicate, that means – talking, listening, reflecting, discussing. In order for this to occur, we need a comfortable environment of trust.
·       So here we are at a crossroad – with some of us struggling to see our future, some struggling to let go of an idealized past and projecting that on our future.  Some of us, like me, struggling to define the difference between an ideal spiritual and ministerial direction and what we can collectively afford.  Others among us are challenged to communicate their ideals, because of perceived and real miscommunications
·       To achieve that, I pose that we must come to these discussions with our own “individual interests” in mind, but be open to the “dividual interest” on our ministerial direction.
So, let me talk about how I hope this series of discussions on the future direction of our ministry will go
·       We’ll meet in small group gatherings
o   Covenant groups, committees – groups that exist in the congregation already
o   Attendance one time – so people who belong to a few different groups will only attend one session.
o   We will have groups of 4 – 6 people in each session – any more would make the duration of the meeting too long to assure each person is heard.
·       We will have an agenda and establish our ground rules, then begin a discussion of 8 prepared questions.
·       Afterwards, I will transcribe your comments to the questions and publish agreed summary statements.  We will define other common statements across groups that may be important to share anonymously.
·       What will we do with those outcomes?  We’ll forge another discussion on plan development

How will this discussion benefit you?
·       First, there’s benefit just in participating – your voice, your collective voice, your needs and wants will be heard.
·       Small group communications yield improved communications
·       Intentional discussions provoke us to listen to others
·       This process will help us build up our relationships and create the foundation of healing of any wounds
·       By understanding the vision of a future - Creating a collective awareness of our condition and hopes for the future:
o   We find a sense of certainty in that vision
o   We face the future with intention
o   We affirm a shared sense of hope
·       And finally, this process makes us all stronger:  you can’t forge steel without putting it to the fire.
In response to Paul Valery’s “The trouble with our times is that the future is not what it used to be. ”   My hope is that by engaging in these discussions on the direction of our ministry, our future will be whatever we intend it to be.
And so it shall be … Amen, Ashe, Shalom, Salaam, Blessed be.